20 August 2016

THAT LETTER

            Port Ginesta, Barcelona, Spain. August, 2016



" Tu non le hai lette. 
Non le hai lette le mille cose che ho scritto su di te. 
Sul diario, sui fogli, su uno schermo, sul muro.
 Ti ho lasciato dovunque"




Dear friends,
I'd like to know if you ever ended  love affairs or friendships for a misunderstanding....Lately I've been thinking about the lack of dialogue in relationships as well as about unspoken words or half-spoken words for fear of  overextending....I'm not very good in expressing my feelings and just one year ago, the night before leaving Barcelona, I wrote a letter to my ex flatmate, at the beginning just a friend and then, over time, I started to look at him as something more than a simple roommate. In the letter, without thinking he could misunderstanding, I criticised his behaviors and he reacted very badly, shutting himself in and dropping me forever when I left the city; I did the same in anger and pride.....By the time I realized I made a mistake and I started to be nostalgic and regret not speaking to him, only for trying to act tough and wait for his reaction, not even realizing we built a wall between us.
Sophia



Care amiche,
mi piacerebbe sapere se vi è mai capitato, per un' incomprensione, di chiudere una storia d'amore o di amicizia....da tempo sto riflettendo sulla mancanza di dialogo nelle relazioni, sulle parole non dette o dette tra le righe per paura di esporsi troppo...Io non sono molto brava nell'esprimere i miei sentimenti e proprio un anno fa, la notte prima di lasciare Barcellona, scrissi una lettera al mio ex coinquilino, che all'inizio vedevo come un amico ma che con il passare dei mesi è diventato qualcosa in più. Nella lettera, senza pensare che potesse fraintendere, ho criticato certi suoi atteggiamenti e lui ha reagito malissimo, chiudendosi in se stesso e cancellandomi dalla sua vita una volta lasciata la città; io, per rabbia e orgoglio, ho fatto lo stesso....Solo col tempo ho iniziato a provare nostalgia e rimpianto per non avere parlato con lui, per aver voluto fare la dura e aspettare una sua reazione, senza darmi conto che entrambi avevamo creato un muro.
Sophia














    Special thanks to the photographer +Alfonso Campoy  ( facebook page ) &  +larry Fonseca   
    ( facebook page )

    Location: PORT GINESTA (BARCELONA)




    I was wearing:

    *     PRIMARK    swimsuit

    *     H&M    hat

    *     MOCHITTI     lace kimono

    *      H&M    earrings

    *      ALE-HOP     golden tatoo






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86 comments

  1. Fantastic photos!
    Have a nice week-end!
    Gil Zetbase
    http://gilzetbase.com/

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    1. Thank you so much!!!Have a nice day!
      Kisses

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  2. Che bel costume!!

    http://julesonthemoon.blogspot.it/

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  3. I totally understand babe, sometimes in life you wish you told someone how you really feel, but it's too late. Now the best thing is to concentrate on the future because better things will come in life. You will look back and think 'what was I thinking?!'.
    Love the look, amazingly sexy as always!! hehe
    Kisses

    www.bequiche.com

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    1. Thanks Sarah!!!I hope the better will come and especially will come soon...in love and in life....I need a positive change!!!Kisses

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  4. Comprendo e capisco benissimo i tuoi sentimenti e il tuo stato d'animo, purtroppo spesso capita che si creino incomprensioni o malintesi nelle relazioni. Soprattutto questo succede quando una delle due persone è particolarmente orgogliosa o chiusa, e preferisce non affrontare l'altro.
    Vedrai che troverai presto la persona giusta per te, capace di capirti e che sappia manifestare i suoi sentimenti nei tuoi confronti:)
    L'outfit comunque è bellisismo, complimenti!! :)

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    1. Grazie Livia!!!Come ben sai l'orgoglio suo e la testardaggine mia iniziale hanno peggiorato le cose...a volte penso che se tornassi indietro non scriverei quella lettera o la scriverei con parole diverse ma credo nel destino e se questo è successo è per un motivo...dovevo andarmene da BCN e capire molte cose su me stessa, come poi è successo

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  5. che carino il costume!!

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  6. Sad story but nice swimwear. Looking great in it.

    www.busyandfab.com

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    1. Thank you so much Mercy....it's a story with a bad end....unfortunately is not a movie, but real life =(
      Kisses

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  7. Nice swimwear and body! Mind sharing some fitness tips? :)

    Angelie // Bohol 2016 Travel Diary

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    1. Thank you so much Bernadette...Honestly I'm not a fitness girl...I just eat well and do some excercises for legs and glutes I saw on youtube^^
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  8. I'm sorry he misunderstood your letter :( Maybe it just wasn't meant to be and there are more beautiful things in your future <3

    -Clarissa @ The View From Here

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    1. I think exactly the same clarissa!!!I believe in destiny...I think that it just wasn't meant to be and he will not be the right man for me....Sometimes I'm sad for this but time will take care of it!
      Kisses

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  9. che belle foto!!

    blog: www.fashi0n-m0de.blogspot.it
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  10. You look amazing in this swimsuit, girlie, and these photos are lovely! Thanks for sharing and I hope you have a great week ahead!

    XO,

    Jalisa
    www.thestylecontour.com

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    1. Thanks Jalisa, I'm so glad you like pics and outfit!!!Kisses
      Sophia

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  11. Wow, what a great beach outfit! You look fantastic! Thanks for your lovely comment, xo Laura
    www.hollylovespaul.com

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    1. Thank you so much Laura...It's a beach fashionable outfit jejeje^^
      Have a nice day!
      Sophia

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  12. Fantastic babe! Your photos are awesome! Love your swimsuit <3
    Kisses!

    Alejandra
    www.4everlemon.com

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    1. Thank you so much Alejandra!!!Have a nice day!!!Kisses

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  13. Such a great suit, lady! Thanks for sharing!

    -Ashley
    Le Stylo Rouge

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    1. Thanks Ashley,you're so nice!!!Kisses
      XoXo
      Sophia

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  14. A volte semplicemente il destino decide per noi, ripensarci fa male, meglio guardare oltre... Il tuo look è molto bello, ma soprattutto che fisico hai!
    un bacione
    Cinzia

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    1. Grazie mille Cinzia!!!Hai perfettamente ragione....credo come te che se le cose sono andate in un certo modo è perchè così era destino....ho cercato di cambiare (lo racconterò le prossimi post) ma non è servito e quindi si volta pagina!!!Baci

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  15. Las fotos són ideales, me encantan!! https://bohoclosetblog.com/2016/08/25/cosmetica-coreana-sorteo-video/

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    1. Muchisimas gracias Adriana!!!Que tengas buen finde!!!!
      Besos

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  16. You look gorgeous) Absolutely amazing, You look radiant dear !

    verabelblog.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you so much Vera!!!Have a nice Saturday!!!
      XoXo

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  17. Very Beautiful!!!
    Chiara
    Www.chiaraangiolino.it

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    1. Grazie Chiara!!!Buon fine settimana!Baci

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  18. I like your blog, its really dope.
    Do you want to follow each other?
    If you want, than follow me, and let me know in comments, so I can follow you back with pleasure.
    We can follow each other on Instagram @andjela.dujovic, let me know in the comments so I can follow you back.

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    xoxo

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    1. Thank you so much Andjela!!!Have a nice day!
      Sophia

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  19. Che belle foto, stai benissimo! Un bacio.
    http://solaanteelespejo.blogspot.com.es/

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    1. Grazie mille!Un abbraccio e buon fine settimana!
      Sophia

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  20. Capita spesso di creare muri di incomprensione... bisognerebbe parlare in più...
    Sei splendida in questo shooting!
    Kisses, Paola.

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    1. Grazie Paola!Sono d'accordo con te....la mancanza di dialogo è un grosso problema nelle relazioni
      Baci

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    1. Thank you so much Beba!!!Kisses
      Sophia

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  22. You look gorgeous! Love the suit!

    http://violettedaily.com/

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    1. Thank you so much Violette!!!Have a nice day!!!
      XoXo
      Sophia

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    1. Thanks Hanna,too nice jejeje!Kisses
      Sophia

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  24. Muy linda Sophia!! el traje de baño te queda impecable.
    www.chicainterior.wordpress.com

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    1. Muchisimas gracias Gisele!!!Un abrazo
      Sophia

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  25. super awesome swim suit look! love those teal earrings!

    kelseybang.com

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    1. Thank you so much!!!Happy Sunday!!!
      XoXo

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  26. ¡Qué bien te queda el bañador, y que fotos tan buenas! Me encanta
    Besos de Conjuntados.com

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    1. Muchisimas gracias!!!He sido mas amantes de los bikini pero ultimamente he cambiado de opinion y la moda actual, tmb playera, me encanta y inspira!
      Besito

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    1. Thank you so much!!!I try to stay fit eheheh!!!
      Kisses

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    1. Thanks Ania, too nice!!!Kisses
      Sophia

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  29. ¡Que glamour! ¡Que barbaridad! ¡Me encanta el look! Precioso bañador
    Besitos desde www.JustForRealGirls.com

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    1. Gracias Miriam!!!Adoro este bañador, es muy sexy y original con sus detalles en la espalda....un abrazo
      Sophia

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    1. Thank you so much Erika!!!!Have a nice day!
      Sophia

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    1. Thanks Alyssa....in summer I like to prepare my body for the beach jejeje!
      Kisses

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  32. love your earring!! great look.

    kisses dear
    www.aprendiendoaquererme.com

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    1. I love them too Carol...are perfect summer earrings...I especially like their color!Kisses

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  33. Nice post! Thank you for sharing.

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    1. Thanks and have a nice week!!!Kisses
      Sophia

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  34. Estilazo!! vas muy guapa :D

    ¡Besos y feliz inicio de semana mi ChicAdicta!
    www.piensaenchic.com

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    1. Muchisimas gracias Ricmary....demasiado amable!!!Un abrazo

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  35. costume davvero bellissimo
    un bacino
    Anna
    http://www.justfashionable.com/2016/08/uno-spuntino-in-campagna-il-mio-look-e.html

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    1. Grazie mille Anna!Un bacione anche a te
      Sophia

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  36. You look gorgeous Sophia, and I love the way you've accessorised your swimsuit with the elegant hat and signature platform heels! I'm sorry to hear you and your friend stopped talking. Sometimes misunderstandings do occur between friends, but hopefully it will be a learning experience, and there are better things ahead for you!

    Thanks so much for your sweet comments on my blog. I really appreciate your encouragement!

    Lots of love Saba xx

    www.trulymadlydeeplyfashion.blogspot.com

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    1. Thanks Saba!!!I like to go fashionable to the beach too (in real life except platforms jejeje^^)...This year I thought a lot about him and the time spent together (11months as flatmates) but I realized that if for him it's more important his pride is 'cause is not so mature and I was no so important as I thought....I learnt a lot about this situation and in the last year, living alone, I had more time for reflecting about myself and life!!!Kisses
      Sophia

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    2. Sometimes it's hard when things don't work out the way we plan, but sadly it's not possible to mend a friendship or relationship if the effort isn't mutual on both sides. Having time to reflect on past events can be a positive thing, and hopefully you'll have lots of good things coming your way in the future. x x

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    3. It's hard to accept....so many times I imagined my life different...like if I didn't move two years ago and we became a coupple...who knows?

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  37. Espectacular, cómo te queda el bañador!
    Besos
    http://desedayrosa.blogspot.com.es

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    1. Muchisimas gracias Rosario!!!!Un beso
      Sophia

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  38. In love with this look, that top is amazing!!
    Darlene | sozudo

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    1. Thanks Darlene, so glad you liked it!!!
      Kisses

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  39. bellissima! bel cappello :-)

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    1. Grazie =) lo adoro,dà un'aria glam eheheh ^^
      Baci

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